Where Does the Wedding Ring Go?
It’s one of those little details couples often ask about — where exactly should the wedding ring go? The answer is simple in most cases, but there are some traditions (and a bit of personal preference) involved.
Which hand?
In the UK — and in many other countries — the wedding ring is worn on the left hand. The tradition comes from the ancient belief that a vein (the “vena amoris”) ran straight from that finger to the heart. It’s a romantic idea, even though the anatomy isn’t quite right.
Some cultures do it differently. In parts of mainland Europe, including Germany and Spain, the wedding ring is worn on the right hand. The same goes in Russia, Norway and a few other places. If you or your partner are from different backgrounds, you might decide to follow the tradition you grew up with, or simply pick the one you prefer.
Which finger?
Traditionally, the ring goes on the fourth finger (the “ring finger”) of whichever hand your culture uses. That’s true for both men and women.
Above or below the engagement ring?
In the UK, most people wear the wedding ring below the engagement ring, so it’s closer to the heart. On the wedding day, the engagement ring is often moved temporarily to the right hand for the ceremony, so the wedding ring can be placed on the left ring finger first. Afterwards, the engagement ring goes back on, sitting above the wedding band.
Of course, there’s no rule that says you must wear them this way. Some people like the look of the wedding ring on top, or they wear the two on different hands. Others choose a single band that combines both rings in one.
Bottom line
Tradition says: UK and many countries it's left hand, fourth finger and wedding ring goes on first, engagement ring above it.
But it’s your wedding, so wear them in the way that feels most comfortable and meaningful to you.
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